JABAR EKSPRES — Marriage is a sacred moment that should happen once in a lifetime. Therefore, it is important that you ‘dig’ as much as possible into the true nature and character of your partner.
In addition, asking these three questions before marriage is very important. It is hoped that it can be an opening road for further questions that are more in-depth.
Furthermore, you can also find out your partner’s perspective before marriage in dealing with a problem and how to solve it.
Here are three questions that you must ask to explore your partner’s true nature and character.
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1. How to behave
This question about how to behave can describe how he/she behaves in dealing with a situation and condition.
In addition, by knowing how to behave, you can judge whether your partner is a mature person or not.
Also, you can find out whether he is a responsible person or not. This can be seen from how he/she behaves towards others.
Examples of questions you can ask:
How do you deal with parents who are emotionally unstable?
How do you deal with a child who is having a tantrum?
How would you behave if a restaurant waiter accidentally dropped a drink and hit your shirt?
How do you love your mom and dad?
You should be able to dig deeper when you and him are in uncomfortable conditions, such as being on public transportation and other uncomfortable conditions.
In addition, you can see his attitude when he is driving and facing uncertain road conditions, such as traffic jams, rain, flat tires, and many others.
2. Way of Thinking
Next, the way of thinking is a mandatory thing that you know about your partner.
This way of thinking will relate to how he or she solves a problem.
